LOVE?

I love you, agad?? 
hmmm .. does it make sense saying I LOVE YOU?
LOVE versus IN LOVE..

At some point in a relationship, one or both partners may feel the urge to say 'I love you'. There is no time frame for when it is appropriate to say those three little words. A person may be afraid their partner might not say it back or feel the same way. These situations can be hard to navigate. Partners may be afraid of saying the words too soon, or not at the right moment. An important thing to remember is that love does not come with a rule book. If it feels right, say it. If a partner does not reciprocate, it may be time to evaluate where the relationship is going and to figure out if you are on the same page as your partner. People fall in love at different speeds. Even if a person is in fact in love with someone, they still may not feel ready to say 'I love you'. They may decide to show their love in others ways. While some people value actually saying the words 'I love you', others may value doing things to show their partner they love them. These other things may include writing notes, delivering flowers, running an errand, repairing something; any small thing that they believe will make their partner's life a little easier.

When it comes to family and friends, saying I love you can be an entirely different concept. Family members may say they love one another on a daily basis, at the end of phones calls or just once in a while. Each of these are normal and vary between individuals. Friends may not say they love one another, even if they do, because they may just assume their friends know they care for and love them. Friends often express their love through actions, not words. Spending time together, trying new things with them, opening up to them may all be signals that indicate love in friendships. It is important to remember that you can never tell a family member or friend that you love them enough. Tell your loved ones how you feel, and often.

It is possible to feel love for many different people. Love for family members, such as your mother, father, sister, brother, aunts or uncles is often unreserved. It is a given, often it is automatic. Loving your friends is somewhat similar to familial love. A person may care for, admire, and protect their friends. It is still a strong love, but is different from being 'in love' with someone.

The main difference between loving someone and being in love is that being in love with someone means you feel romantically for them. When you feel romantically toward someone, you may get butterflies when they are around or you hear from them or you may find yourself thinking about them constantly. Emotions are unpredictable and being in love with someone may leave you feeling out of control and at a loss for words. One of the best things a person can do when they are in love is to simply let go and enjoy the experience.

Proud to be an Atenean

When we talk about Xavier University (Ateneo de Cagayan), first thing that comes out in my mind is that it is one of the number one schools in Mindanao. It is a one of the prestigious schools in the Mindanao who produces good quality of education and services to its students. And produces also competitive graduates equipped with good skills.

            Xavier University provides good services to its students.  It has a very nice entrance and exit where students, teachers and staff will just swipe its ID in the turnstile in order to enter the campus. It has a good number of buildings, classrooms and offices. It has a well equipped library that is very useful for the students. And it has a museum inside the university which proves that it appreciate and preserve the Filipino culture and heritage. The university has also its own gymnasium, covered courts and soccer field which is very useful in enhancing the talents and skills of the students in sports and other activities. There’s the church which had a great help for the spiritual development of the students. And a new canteen for a more convenient place to eat and more foods for the students to choose.

            Xavier University focuses more on how to produce a good quality of education. It is a PAASCU accredited school and has good teachers that are competitive enough and equipped with very good skills. And it aims to provide an excellence in teaching and to produce graduates with competence, conscience and commitment in service of the church and the Filipino people. And in Xavier University, your future will be in good hand because it does not only produces students with intellectual capability but also it enhances physical and spiritual health, for the students to be more competitive and responsible citizen.

My idol that I admired most;My mom :)

Most of us admire heroes and sometimes they become our inspiration to do well and to strive more. And when we talk about heroes, first thing that comes out in our mind is bravery - a quality that most hero has. For me, a hero is not just a brave person; it is a person who had done something good, a person with good character traits, and a person who is willing to sacrifice for the sake of others.
            All of us has its’ own hero. For me, my hero is my mother.  A mother who can do everything just to make sure that she can give the best towards her child. From the day I was born, I know that my mother had given all her love, protection and care towards me.  I can see all the things and sacrifices she undergone in order to give all the things I need. I can feel every day her unconditional love and care towards me. She inspired me to strive more in my studies because of all the things she had shown me. When I’m sick she’s always there even though she will experience sleepless night just to check my condition. She’s always there to protect and guide me.She is like a hero who is always there for me, ready to face the battle just to protect me from harmful things and situation. And I’m glad that she’s my mom because without her I’m nothing.            She may not be like the other heroes but I’m sure that she’ll only be the hero in my life and no one can ever replace her. She is an extraordinary hero that makes me smile/laugh and makes me feel being love and care.  She’s my first teacher, my first playmate, my best friend, and most especially my first hero.  

Inner and Outer Beauty

Beauty is like an art, it catches attention. It is the quality that a person or a thing may possess that gives pleasure and satisfaction. There’s a famous saying that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, it means that different people find beauty in a different way. And every one of us has different thoughts of what beauty really is. And most of us classify beauty in to two kinds: the physical/outer beauty and the inner beauty.        

    Physical beauty is merely on the physical aspect or appearance that a person has. The hair, the skin, and the body figure are the elements that contribute to the physical appearance of the person. Some people are already blessed with beautiful physical appearance since they were born. And while other people do some extra effort to be physically beautiful and fashionable in the eyes of the people through the help of technology. For me, physical beauty is not permanent, it still fades.  Inner beauty is much different from physical beauty, it is about the beautiful character traits that a person has. It is the good traits that makes a person glow and beautiful. A person who possesses inner beauty has a positive attitude and contentment of what he had unlike the person with outer beauty. It is because a person who is physically beautiful only tends to seek for more things in order for them to stay more beautiful and sometimes they are insecure in the people around them. A person with inner beauty has something that will make you comfortable being with them, maybe because of its good attitude. They become more beautiful because of the way they talk and move, you can see the sincerity of their actions. A person with inner beauty is permanent, it’s from within.         

   Physical beauty is only the physical appearance itself while inner beauty is the good traits that a person possesses. Everyone is beautiful; but the most important thing is stay beautiful inside and out.